Dieses Handbuch räumt auf mit Vorurteilen, Mythen und Unwahrheiten (auch innerhalb der LGBTQIA+ community) über Bi-, Poly-, Omni- und Pansexualität und alle, die sich zu mehr als einem Geschlecht hingezogen fühlen. Vaneet Mehta schreibt über die mangelnde und meist negative Repräsentation und deren Auswirkungen. Es gibt Erfahrungsberichte, Tipps und Ratschläge zum Coming-Out in unterschiedlichen Settings, zu Dating, Beziehungen, Gesundheit und Erfahrungen mit dem Gesundheitssystem. Hierfür wurden über 50 Menschen interviewt, darunter viele trans*, nichtbinäre, genderqueere und genderfluide Personen, People of Colour und und Personen auf dem asexuellen und aromantischen Spektrum.

Verlagsbeschreibung:

"You're just being greedy."
"Are you sure you're not gay?"
"Pick a side."

Being a bisexual man isn't easy - something Vaneet Mehta knows all too well. After spending more than a decade figuring out his identity, Vaneet's coming out was met with questioning, ridicule and erasure. This experience inspired Vaneet to create the viral #BisexualMenExist campaign, combatting the hate and scepticism m-spec (multi-gender attracted spectrum) men encounter, and helping others who felt similarly alone and trapped.

This powerful book is an extension of that fight. Navigating a range of topics, including coming out, dating, relationships and health, Vaneet shares his own lived experience as well as personal stories from others in the community to help validate and uplift other bisexual men. Discussing the treatment of m-spec men in LGBTQ+ places, breaking down stereotypes and highlighting the importance of representation and education, this empowering book is a rallying call for m-spec men everywhere.

Author Biography
Vaneet Mehta (He/Him) is an Indian bisexual man born and raised in Southall, West London. He is a software engineer, writer and public speaker and the founder of #BisexualMenExist, which went viral in 2020. He has appeared on numerous panels and delivered talks to various companies. He has written for Men's Health, Stonewall, GMFA, Metro UK, OutLife and Unicorn Magazine and his work has been published in The Bi-ble:
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