Special Topics in Being a Human

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A Queer and Tender Guide to Things I've Learned the Hard Way about Caring For People, Including Myself

trans* Autor und Schreibender für einen Kummerkasten gibt wertvolle Tipps zu wichtigen Themen des Lebens, darunter: Entscheidungsfindung, Kritik üben und annehmen, Hilfe anbieten, Entschuldigungen, wie und wann Meinungsverschiedenheiten ohne Streit machbar sein können, zum Umgang von dem Ende von Beziehungen, zur richtigen Verwendung von Namen und Pronomen, wie mensch ein*er gut*er Verbündet*er sein kann, zum Umgang mit Überforderung, wenn alles zu viel scheint u. v. m. Dazu gibt es auf jeder Seite etwa so viel - und wunderschöne und erklärende - Illustrationen wie Text. Verlagsbeschreibung gefolgt vom Inhaltsverzeichnis:

 

S. Bear Bergman's illustrated guide to practical advice for the modern age, filtered through a queer lens.

As an author, educator, and public speaker, S. Bear Bergman has documented his experience as, among other things, a trans parent, with wit and aplomb. He also writes the advice column "Asking Bear," in which he answers crucial questions about how best to make our collective way through the world.

Featuring disarming illustrations by Saul Freedman-Lawson, Special Topics in Being a Human elaborates on "Asking Bear"'s premise: a gentle, witty, and insightful book of practical advice for the modern age. It offers Dad advice and Jewish bubbe wisdom, all filtered through a queer lens, to help you navigate some of the complexities of life - from how to make big decisions or make a good apology, to how to get someone's new name and pronouns right as quickly as possible, to how to gracefully navigate a breakup. With warmth and candor, Special Topics in Being a Human calls out social inequities and injustices in traditional advice-giving, validates your feelings, asks a lot of questions, and tries to help you be your best possible self with kindness, compassion, and humour.

 

Table of Contents / Inhaltsverzeichnis:

9   Introduction
13 1. How to Make Big Decisions in a Way That Matches Your Values
33 2. How to Tell People Things They Very Probably Won't Be Happy to Hear, at Least at First
47 3. How to Keep Firmly and Everlastingly in Mind That Doing Nothing Isn't Neutral
54 4. How to Give the Kind of Help That Helping's All About (and Not the Kind We All Can Do Without)
71 5. How to Avoid Getting Your Upset All Over Other People When You Feel Out of Control
84 6. How to Love Someone with Your Words, Actions, and Priorities (in Addition to Your Feelings, Which I'm Sure Are Very Nice)
96 7. How to Apologize (Properly, Not like a Republican Congressman)
112 8. How to Have a Disagreement, or Even an Argument, without Having a Fight
128 9. How to Be Reasonable Graceful When a Relationship Has Ended, Even If You Feel Wretched
142 10. How to Take Criticism (and How to Tell What's Criticism and What's Just a Pointless Insult)
153 11. How to Take a Compliment Sometimes (No One Is Reading Your Diary; We All Struggle with This)
159 12. How to Get Someone's New Name and/or Pronouns Right, Every Time, Sooner Than You Think
176 13. How to Increase a Sense of Safety for Women and Other People with Marginalized Genders Whom You Encounter in Daily Life
197 14. How to Be Bad at Things but Do Them Anyway
212 15. How to Be a Useful Ally or Co_Resister to Actual People Whom You Support
224 16. How to Keep Going When You Just Want More Than Anything to Stop, for G-d's Sake
244 17. How to Be Yourself
269   Acknowldegements

 

  • Text/Illustrationen: S. Bear Bergman / Saul Freedman-Lawson
  • Softcover, 272 Seiten
  • Sprache: Englisch
  • 255 x 178 mm
  • Verlag: Arsenal Pulp Press
  • ISBN: 9781551528540
  • Produktnummer: SB-9781551528540
  • 9 Stück auf Lager


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